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God First, Man Second: Love Series, part 2

I love my children. I think what I love the most is the opportunity I have to pour knowledge and compassion and common sense to them. In this way, they won't be stupid like the majority of people driving on the road. Wait a second, what was that I was saying about compassion?

I do enjoy the ability to pour knowledge into my kids. Things like logic don't come automatic with these little ones. Perhaps it does, but they haven't taken the time to think through everything just yet. That's where I step in. 

'Did you do what I asked,' I'll ask. 'Not yet,' they will respond. Aha! Then you have not done what I asked. I like logic. Until you enter college, logic is simple. It works. It makes sense. 

We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did. 1 John 2:3-6

Logic!

Either we have obeyed God or we haven't. It's actually quite simple. We can give our reasons for why we have failed, but it doesn't change the outcome. We just end up sounding like little children, not understanding, or wanting to understand, logic. 

So let's not make this about us. Our love for God is not made complete unless we obey. God and His commands come first. What we want is secondary. This is how we show love. 

I'm reminded of the fact that love is an act of the will and not a feeling. Oh, we can feel it, but if we wait until we feel something, we might not obey. That would make it about us again, wouldn't it? 
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